You are expecting your second child and you’re so excited! While most children are eager to have a
sibling and are excited while you are pregnant this might change once the baby
arrives. You might find that they
sometimes start to feel like it’s a competition for your attention and start
acting out. There are signs that they
are seeking your attention such as snatching the baby toys, hitting or acting
like a baby. As a parent, it might be
challenging to give both children the amount and the type of attention they
need. However, there are several ways to make your older child feel valued.
The first step is acknowledging their feelings. By talking to the older sibling about what
will happen when the baby comes and explaining you will still love them. Also, get them involved with things like
naming the baby, shopping for baby clothes or choosing a nursery decor.
After the baby gets here try not to change the older sibling
routine too much. By keeping the same
routine it will seem as if nothing has really changed since the new baby
arrived. Have them help you with their
big brother/sister. Make even the smallest task seem important and rewarding
them with praise for being a good big brother/sister. It will make such a difference.
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